有时我会在妈妈的房门外偷听，我知道她为他哭得有多伤心。我为自己祈祷，更为她祈祷；我为她祈祷超过为我自己。
我知道我祈求的实在太多，但你能不能把她爱的唯一的男人送回。我知道你一般不这么做，可是亲爱的主啊，她快要死了。
为了和爸爸再跳一次舞，每天晚上我都睡着，而这就是我全部的梦。
Your Forever Friend Follows真正的朋友会紧紧相随
“A friend walk in when the rest of the world walks out.”
Sometimes in life，
You find a special friend；
Someone who changes your life just by being part of it.
Someone who makes you laugh until you can’t stop；
Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world.
Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.
This is forever friendship.
When you’re down，
And the world seems dark and empty，
Your forever friend lifts you up in spirits and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full.
Your forever friend gets you through the hard times，the sad times，and the confused times.
If you turn and walk away，
Your forever friend follows，
If you lose you way，
Your forever friend guides you and cheers you on.
Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay.
“别人都走开的时候，朋友仍与你在一起。”
有时候在生活中，
你会找到一个特别的朋友；
他只是你生活中的一部分内容，却能改变你整个的生活。
他会把你逗得开怀大笑；
他会让你相信人间有真情。
他会让你确信，真的有一扇不加锁的门，在等待着你去开启。
这就是永远的友谊。
当你失意，
当世界变得黯淡与空虚，
你真正的朋友会让你振作起来，原本黯淡、空虚的世界顿时变得明亮和充实。
你真正的朋友会与你一同度过困难、伤心和烦恼的时刻。
你转身走开时，
真正的朋友会紧紧相随，
你迷失方向时，
真正的朋友会引导你，鼓励你。
真正的朋友会握着你的手，告诉你一切都会好起来的
Decomposition of Love爱的分解
The love which consists in this， that two solitudes protect and limit and great each other.
Love’s mysteries in souls do grow， but yet the body in his book.
To love for the sake of being loved is human， but to love for the sake of loving is angelic.
To fear love is to fear life， and those who fear life are already three parts dead.
It is better bo have love and lost than never to have loved at all.
Man’s love is of man’s life a thing apart， it is woman’s whole existence.
Charity suffereth long， and is kind； charity envieth not； charity vaunteth not itself， is not puffed up， doth not behave itself unseemly， seeketh not her own， is not easily provoked， thinketh no evil； rejoiceth not in iniquith， but rejoiceth in the truth； beareth all things， believeth all things， hopeth all things， endureth all things. Charity never faileth.
The last：
I —— Inject ——投入
L —— Loyal ——忠诚O—— Obeservant ——用心V —— Valiant ——勇敢E —— Enjoyment ——喜悦
Y —— Yes ——愿意O—— Obligation ——责任U —— Unison ——和谐
两个孤独的人相互保护，相互制约，相互问候，这便是爱情。
爱情的秘密在双方的心灵中生成，但形体是表白爱惜的书。
以爱还爱的是人性，但为爱而爱的是神性。
惧怕爱就是惧怕生活，那些惧怕生活的人已经有四分之三部分死了。
宁可曾经爱过而失败，也不要从来未曾有过一次爱。
爱情对男子不过是身外之物，对女人却是整个生命。
爱是经久忍耐，亲切友爱；爱是不妒忌；爱是不自夸，不趾高气扬，不举止失当，不自私自利，不轻易动怒，不心存恶念；不以行邪恶为乐，而以求正道为乐，凡事宽容，凡事相信，凡事希望，凡事忍耐。爱永不衰退。
最后，
I —— Inject ——投入
L —— Loyal ——忠诚O —— Obeservant ——用心V —— Valiant ——勇敢E —— Enjoyment ——喜悦
Y —— Yes ——愿意
A Woman in Your Life你生命中的那个女人
Tomorrow you may get a working woman， but you need to marry with full knowledge of these facts as well ：
Here is a girl， who is as much educated as you are；
Who is earning almost as much as you do；
One， who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are；
One， who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven’t， as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One， who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters， almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life；
One， who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that， her home， people who love her， to adopt your home， your family， your ways and even your family name
One， who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day 1， while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances， environment and that kitchen
One， who is expected to make the tea， first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day， even if she is as tired as you are， maybe more， and yet never ever expected to complain； to be a servant， a cook， a mother， a wife， even if she doesn’t want to； and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her； and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding， or if she learns faster than you；
One， who has her own set of friends， and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too， those， who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy， unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities；
Yes， she can drink and dance just as well as you can， but won’t， simply because you won’t like it， even though you say otherwise.
One， who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success， if you just help her some and trust her；
One， who just wants one thing from you， as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support， your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding， or love， if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this…
明天你可能会和一个职业女性结婚，但这样的婚姻也会为你带来如下一些事实：
她是一个和你接受同等教育水平的女孩；
她几乎和你挣的一样多；
她拥有和你一样的梦想和愿望，因为她就是一个和你一样的人；
她从来不会去厨房，就像你和你的姐妹不会去一样，因为她忙于学习，而且，厨艺好并不能给她带来竞争优势；
她和你一样，已经和她的父母、兄弟、姊妹一起生活了20或25年了；
她勇敢地抛下所有这一切：她的家，那些爱她的人；进入你的家，你的家庭，按你的方式生活，甚至跟你姓；
她从第一天起就不知怎么的，成为了一个众望所归的主厨，而你却在睡梦中忽略了她在新的处境，新的环境以及那个厨房里的窘境；
